Went to eat with my friend.
She and her bf relationship is cold..she told me is a "xi guan"and not "xi huan"
she is 24years old.independent.

Our conversation.
me:if ever your bf broke up with you.will you be upset?

her:I am not sure if i will be upset.BUT!!i am sure i wont cry.

me:why?if this is the case..why don you break up with him?why are you still holding on?

her:i have been giving him chances..and i want him to regret not me.he will be the one losing me if ever he don wan me.Chances is what i am giving him

me:then you not tired?

her:yes i am.too tired.dont even want to think.

love is not one sided.
is both parties.
what can i sae?

IS just complicated.
am i right?